7 Rules for Finding Love in Your 70s (3 of 4)

Navigate families, friends, and past relationships with grace

Modern dating comes with group chats, roommates, tight friend circles, and occasionally a perfectly civil ex who still shares a Spotify plan. But when you’re older, none of that matters. Sure, you still have family and friends, but you see them like twice a year at best. This doesn’t mean you should neglect them, though. Introduce your new boo to your friend circles. As for the family, well, they don’t really have much say in who you date, now, do they? Still, don’t just pull your new love out of thin air during a family dinner.

Prioritize quality company over pure chemistry

Chemistry is great when you’re younger, but compatibility keeps you going in the later years. Look for the person you’re excited to spend time with. Notice how you both spend quiet time. Can you read in the same room? Do you make each other laugh on tired Tuesday nights? Are you kind to each other when hungry?

Physical attraction somewhat matters, but after 70, you’re not really pulling any young 10/10 bodies. It’s more about emotional and intellectual attraction, feeling seen and respected. You can’t fake genuine interest at that age, nor should you.